2. Do you plan ahead for summer, or fly by the seat of your pants?
3. What is your favorite meal to cook?
4. Do you get offended by not receiving thank yous?
5. How did you meet your best friend?


1. Have you ever forgotten your child in a store or at school?N/A--but while we are talking about this, I could never get over how many people would forget to pick their kids up when I was directing a Child Care Center. One lady even forgot on Christmas Eve once. I mean, the dry cleaning-yes, toilet paper at the store-yes, but your kid? REALLY???? Now, I'm not judging, Moms speak up if there is something that I am missing here..
2. Where did you go on your very first date? (Like...first first, not first with your spouse or current significant other!)
I don't remember where we ate but we went and saw some movie with Christian Slater--you could probably take 3 people to the movies for what it costs for one now--ahhh, the good old days.
3. What's your "silly" fear? (We're not talking water and heights.)
Hmmm, I think that all of my fears are valid, but probably a fear of mice and bugs, I mean I do kind of have a size advantage...
4. Confrontation: do you cause it, deal with it as it comes, or run far far away?
Run, Forrest, run...I'll confront if I think that someone else is being treated unfairly before I will speak up for myself. Sometimes I do think it is necessary, but for the most part all angry confrontations do is toss a bunch of words out that you can't take back. For the record, that whole sticks and stones stuff is a bunch of crap...
5. Wood floors or carpet?
You know how you always want what you don't have? All of my homes have had carpet, but I thought hard woods are so pretty, so when we bought, we bought a home with hardwoods. Man, the upkeep is killing me! I know that all of the dust that I now see was hiding in my carpet, but it drives me crazy. Our house is very dusty, I dust and run the electric sweeper daily, but I can't keep up with the dust under furniture and the hardwoods hide nothing. Our next house will definitely not be all hardwood, maybe a mix.

1. Can you drive a stick shift? No real consistent nicknames. People who know me well will shorten Stacie to Stace. And the Rev has some pet names for me that you don't need to know. He has also been known to refer to me as the Napkin Captain whenever we are out to eat because I always get a big stack of napkins, you never know when you might need those...

1. Have you worn the same outfit more than one day in a row? 
1. Would you rather be on ABC's Extreme Home MakeOver or TLC's What not to Wear? Well, I don't really have a sad enough story to make it onto Extreme Home Makeover and What Not to Wear would probably want to force me to wear actual colors, so can I just have the money that they spend instead?
2. Do you have any tattoos?
Yes, 1 small one on my ankle. Biggest.Regret.EVER.
3. Do you tell your kids about things you did growing up?
N/A--but if I had to guess, I would say we probably will because the Rev and I have a bad habit of forcing the other to listen to the same stories over and over.
4. If the traffic signal turns yellow, do you stop or speed up?
It depends on how far I am from the light and whether or not there are any po-po right around me. Lil' Miss Wilkes ALWAYS goes--she gets to the intersection, acts like she might be thinking of stopping, then guns it and says "We're goin!" Your life will flash right before your eyes...that is, if you can keep them open...
5. What's your preference: chocolate or chips?
Um, yes, please?

1. If you had $1,000 to donate to a charity, which would you choose? 
1. Where did you meet your spouse and did you instantly know it was love? 
1. What movie could you watch over and over again and not get tired of? We were just having this conversation with Team Jacie the other day. The Rev's list is much longer than mine, but I can never resist "Steel Magnolias" or "Remember the Titans." The former has given me many favorite one-liners, and the latter just makes you feel good.
2. What's your biggest pet peeve right now?
This varies from day to day and hour to hour, but since you said right now, I will go with rising costs and shrinking portions. Do companies really think that we don't notice that we are getting 1/3 less product (I have noticed this in everything from makeup to food) for 1/3 MORE money?
3. If you had to describe your best friend in five words or less, what would you say?
Well, you guys hear enough about the Rev, so I'll give you the low down on my other BFF, which I would have to say is the girly half of Team Jacie. She is just enough--just enough like me to give us lots in common, just enough different from me to balance me out.
4. If you did not have to worry about money or go to school what would you do for a living?
I would have to say own a dessert or craft shop.
5. What is your one "splurge" item, that you will always buy, no matter the cost?
The last part of this question, the whole cost thing, makes this one hard to answer. I would say magazines, but some of those big ones that cost like $9 or $10, I just can't make myself buy, not matter what they put on the cover.

I know that Oprah says it is a no-no, but I have re-gifted in the past. I mean, we like chips and dip, but we got 3 chip and dip sets for our wedding. If you can't figure out where to return it, you may as well pass it on to someone who can use it. No horror stories, but I did once sell an item at a yard sale that still had a wedding card attached to it, oops..
P.S. - If you gave us a chip and dip set for our wedding, yours is totally the one that we kept...
2. Do you know what you are getting for Christmas this year?
Yep, pretty much. I loathe surprises...hopefully everyone has remembered this and stuck to the list.
3. Who brings the most gifts in your family, you or Santa?
No kids here, so no Santa...Mom still gets us a stocking though, full of toiletries for the coming year. The Rev and I both had a momentary panic last month, when we realized he had gone through his ration of shaving cream (I caught him using mine, that's how I knew) and I had no more razors. We had to break down and buy them for ourselves. Sad day, indeed...but we're still using the toothpaste and deodorant that we got in last year's stocking.
4. What store do you love to buy jeans from?
The only thing I loathe more than surprises are jeans. I can never find a pair that fits "right," so consequentially, I never wear them. Denim trousers are as close as you will see me come to jeans. I am convinced that they either don't make them for my body type, or if they do, they cost way more than I would ever spend on one pair of pants.
5. Christmas meal: Big, All Out Meal or Snacks and Apps?
Big Christmas morning breakfast/brunch, tons of snacking throughout the rest of the day. When we lived in the city, after my family would load up to go home, the Rev and I would try to grab something to eat before we got on the road to head to his parents house (3 hours away). One year, our only open choices were a Chinese Buffet and Hooters--I told him it would be the only time I would offer to let him eat at Hooters--the boy is no dummy and we burped Chinese for the rest of the night!

1. Do you open presents on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
1. What's on the top of your holiday wish list and why?! A new sewing machine--mine quit on me in the middle of a million projects and I need to sew!
2. What is your favorite Christmas gift from the past?
Anything that the Rev has given me...hey, he is buying the sewing machine so I've got to stay in good...
3. If you had life to do over, what would you be when you grow up?
A Home Economist--just bake and craft and decorate and can and sew and teach others how to do it. Like June Cleaver, only getting paid!
4. When do you put up your tree?
Oh, the tree...last year's tree and the length of time that it took to put it up and the number of times it fell over almost led to a holiday divorce for the Rev and I. This year, we went ahead and invested in a nice fake tree to keep the peace. I thought it would be easier to decorate, but I have finally realized that tree decorating is not for linear, symmetrical people. It is so hard! So, to answer the question, I start putting it up after Thanksgiving, but it is usually a 2 week process to get it finished. (In honor of this weekend's big SEC Championship game, I am showing you a pic of the Gamecocks tree that we put up in the Rev's office each Christmas--at least it is up! And, GO GAMECOCKS!!)
5. What is your favorite Holiday?
I like them all--they all have their own unique you-can-only-get-it-this-time-of-year candy...but Christmas is probably my favorite.

1. What Christmas song do you loathe? 
1. What is the most physically painful thing that has ever happened to you? 





Picky, crafty, and funny (He said: clean, dramatic, and loveable--after I told him I wasn't going to put his 1st four or five answers on here...).

1. If you could speak with a different accent, what would it be (i.e Australian,Scottish)?
